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Embracing Intentional Living at Home

June 18, 20244 min read

“Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful."

— William Morris

Introduction:

Late into the evening, illuminated by the soft glow of my laptop screen, I found myself immersed in the endless scroll of the internet— as one does, a modern ritual of exploration and distraction. My fingers danced across the touchpad, navigating through a sea of information and images until I stumbled upon a quote that seemed to stand out amidst the digital noise: 'Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.'

These words, attributed to William Morris, resonated with a clarity that cut through the clutter of tabs and open windows. They lingered in my mind, echoing a sentiment I'd often felt but rarely articulated. There was a profound simplicity to the idea, a call to discernment in the midst of abundance.

Slowly, almost instinctively, I began to reflect on my own surroundings. I embraced a mindful approach to curating my space. Each piece in my home had to serve a purpose or exude beauty—or ideally, both. It became a quiet, ongoing process of refining and romanticizing my existence.

It wasn't just about aesthetics; it was about creating an environment that nurtured my soul and encouraged tranquility. I found joy in this process of curating and designing a life I loved, one day at a time.


Embracing a Life of Intentional Living At Home

Living Room Coastal Grandmother

A Space for Reflection

Begin by stepping back and observing your home as a new visitor might. Walk through each room, allowing your senses to absorb the ambiance. Let your eyes wander over the surfaces, your fingers trace the contours, and your heart feel the essence of the space. In this moment of reflection, ask yourself: What stories do these objects tell? Do they whisper tales of joy, function, and beauty, or do they sit silent, burdensome, and devoid of meaning?

The Dance of Decluttering

Decluttering is not a ruthless purge; it is a delicate dance with memories and meanings. Start with a single drawer or a quiet corner, and gently lift each item into the light. Hold it, consider it. Does it serve a purpose? Does it spark a flicker of delight or fond memories? If it does neither, consider releasing it to find a new home or purpose.

Curating with Care

Once the excess has ebbed away, turn your attention to what remains. Each item now has a voice, a reason to be. Arrange them thoughtfully, giving them space to breathe and be noticed. A cherished book beside a cozy reading chair, a hand-thrown ceramic bowl on a sunlit table, a family heirloom that echoes with history. These are not just objects; they are companions in your daily life, each contributing to the story of your existence.

Welcoming the Useful

Utility need not be devoid of beauty. Choose items that serve a function but also bring pleasure to the senses. A cast iron skillet that tells tales of countless family meals, a beautifully woven basket that holds your knitting supplies, or a sleek, well-designed lamp that illuminates your evening read. In these choices, let practicality and elegance intertwine, crafting a home that is as efficient as it is enchanting.

Celebrating the Beautiful

Beauty speaks to the soul. It is found in the curve of a vase, the texture of a handmade quilt, the play of light through stained glass. Surround yourself with items that you find beautiful, that uplift and inspire you. This beauty need not be extravagant; often, it is the simplest things—a freshly picked flower in a glass jar, a watercolor painting by a local artist, a softly glowing candle—that touch the heart most profoundly.

Living with Intention

With your home now a sanctuary of the useful and the beautiful, let each day begin with gratitude for the space you have created. Maintain it with gentle care, mindful of what you bring into it. Remember Morris's words, leading you towards a life where your surroundings reflect the harmony and clarity within your soul.

In this sanctuary, every object has a purpose, every corner tells a story, and every day unfolds with quiet joy. Here, amidst the gentle rhythm of intentional living, you find not just a house, but a home.

Samantha Romano is the editor and at The Gilded Palm, where she infuses her passion for homemaking and hospitality into every piece she writes. She excels in creating serene havens amidst life’s chaos, offering insightful guidance on crafting calm, inviting spaces. Her articles on home and literary escapes combine warmth with thoughtful detail, providing readers with both inspiration and tranquility.

Samantha Romano

Samantha Romano is the editor and at The Gilded Palm, where she infuses her passion for homemaking and hospitality into every piece she writes. She excels in creating serene havens amidst life’s chaos, offering insightful guidance on crafting calm, inviting spaces. Her articles on home and literary escapes combine warmth with thoughtful detail, providing readers with both inspiration and tranquility.

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